PSYCHOLOGICAL BASIS OF NEGATIVE RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN IN UZBEKISTAN FAMILIES

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A study was conducted on negative relationships between children and their parents in Uzbek families and their psychological consequences. Several methods and techniques are proposed to prevent these relationships or provide effective solutions to them. The main goal of the article is to positively resolve conflicts and problems in the family and offer new solutions. The elimination of problems is studied with a creative approach to family disagreements. In addition, the psychological consequences of any problems are analyzed in depth Keywords:Psychocorrection, the role of parents in the family, observation method, interview method,psychological problems, adolescent psychology. Introduction Family is the smallest but most important unit of society. Uzbek families are mainly based on traditional values, in which respect, obedience and mutual kindness play an important role. However, as a result of the changes in modern life, the development of technology and cultural influences, certain problems are arising between parents and children. This article analyzes the psychological foundations of negative problems within the family and discusses ways to prevent them. New approaches and solutions are presented to each problem. It also explains how parents behave in problematic situations and how to approach child rearing. Wecan also see such problems inUzbek families using the observation method. page722 INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE ISSN:2692-5206,ImpactFactor:12,23 AmericanAcademicpublishers,volume05,issue04,2025 Journal: https://www.academicpublishers.org/journals/index.php/ijai Observation and analysis of the results, statistics show that the main problems and shortcomings in thefamily include thefollowing: The main part for the lack of trust in their children in young families is that parents leave all the responsibility on themselves. A child who does not feel the burden of responsibility will never be able to act confidently and confidently in adult life. The lack of open and trusting communication between parents and children causes problems. Many parents prefer to command and control their children rather than understand their inner world. As a result, children are afraid to express their thoughts openly and emotional distancing is observed. The sad thing is that the more technology and technology become popular, the less time parents spend with their children. Even the fact that the daily communication level has decreased to 15 minutes is a clear proof of this. This situation is especially noticeable in young families. In traditional families, punishment and strict control are used as a means of upbringing. Modern youth want more freedom. The more parents try to maintain their views, the more misunderstandings with their children increase. As a result, conflicts and disagreements arise. Parents who have grown up in a strict family sometimes try to introduce such a method of control and upbringing to their children. However, today's youth are growing up on the basis of concepts such as freedom and equality, which naturally leads to situations that further exacerbate conflicts in the family. Your child is not a person of your time, but a person of the future generation. Therefore, you should seek solutions to problems together, while respecting his rights and personality. Some parents can be overly demanding or critical of their children. This can cause self-doubt, depression, and rebellion in children. They are forced to hide their feelings, and as a result, the family atmosphere becomes cold. I can say for sure that this is precisely the flaw that is most noticeable in young families. Young parents demand respect from their children, while experienced parents achieve respect through practical skillsand willpower. The development of technology has increased the gap between parents and children. While young people are increasingly addicted to the Internet and social networks, parents may perceive this as indifference or laziness. This deepens misunderstandings in the family. This problem is more common in young families and is almost invisible in experienced families. The main mistake in this is also associated with children's excessive use of social networks and cyber games. In this case, the main culprit is undoubtedly the parents. Giving a child a toy or some kind of pet (poultry, cattle, sheep, cat) instead of a phone or other devices and reassuring him that you will raise it yourself will also help him to divert his focus from gadgets. References review and methods. From a psychological point of view, problems between parents and children are often associated with the gap between generations. According to Erik Erikson's theory of personal development, people of different ages have different psychological needs. For example, if parents value a sense of stability and responsibility, young people strive to feel independent. Parents who do not understand this essence use violence, force