SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS OF PREPARING BOYS FOR FAMILY LIFE

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This article is an important study of the problems that arise in relationships between young people, especially between boys aged 20-25 and their peers or romantic partners, in the process of personality formation, emotional growth and achieving personal goals. Psychological research and scientific articles, by studying the relationships between individuals of this age, help tounderstand the problems moredeeply. Keywords: personality formation, emotional growth, personal goals, psychological research, communicationdifferences. INTRODUCTION Psychological research helps to understand the changing and complex relationships between individuals of this age. Erikson's theory of personality and social development is an important factor in the formation of relationships and emotional conflicts between young people. It also draws on attachment theory to show the influence of childhood parental relationships in providing trust and security in young people's romantic relationships. Emotional conflicts that arise in romantic and friendship relationships, competition between peers, lack of mutual trust, personal goals and career paths, cause psychological and emotional problems for boys of this age. Social networks and online relationships also have a specific impact ontheformation ofyoung people's personal lives and romanticrelationships. Main part. Relationships and emotional conflicts between young people, changing relationships between boys and girls, play amajor role inthe processes ofself-understanding and personality formation. Young people between the ages of 20 and 25 are going through a variety of social, emotional, and personal changes in their lives, and these processes can lead to conflicts and complications in their friendships and romantic relationships. Psychological research offers a variety of psychological theories and approaches to better understand the problems that boys and their friends or romanticpartners faceat thisage. 1.Communication Differences Between Men and Women The communication differences between men and women play an important role in relationships between young people. John Gray's book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" has become a major theoretical framework for studying relationships between men and women. According to him, men are more inclined to solve problems, while women want emotional support. These differences can lead to misunderstandings and difficulties in expressing feelings in romantic relationships between boys and girls. Young people often have difficulty clearly expressing their needs, which can create emotional conflicts between friendships and romantic relationships. http://www.internationaljournal.co.in/index.php/jasass 81 Volume15Issue04, April2025 Impact factor: 2019: 4.679 2020: 5.015 2021: 5.436, 2022: 5.242, 2023: 6.995, 2024 7.75 2.SocialChange andCompetition Social change and competition among young people also cause conflicts between romantic relationships and friendships. According to Erik Erikson's theory of "Personality and Social Development", personality formation continues between the ages of 20 and 25,which can lead to conflicts in friendships and romantic relationships. Young people face many internal and external problems in determining their identity. Conflicts between personal goals, social norms, andfamily traditions complicaterelationships between boys and theirpartners. 3.EmotionalConflicts and RomanticRelationships Emotional conflict in romantic relationships is analyzed in particular based on Attachment theory. How young people connect in romantic relationships depends on how they connected with their parents in childhood. People who have a secure attachment experience greater success inestablishing trusting and fulfillingrelationships in romantic relationships. However, those with an anxious attachment experience constant insecurity and anxiety, which makes it difficult for their romantic relationships to be consistent and successful. Young boys are influenced by the attachment styles they developed in childhood in their first serious romantic relationships, which can cause problems. 4.EmotionalConflicts in RomanticRelationships Emotional conflict in romantic relationships often stems from miscommunication and a lack of attention to each other’s needs. According to research from the Gottman Institute, people have difficulty expressing their feelings appropriately, which can lead to emotional crises. Young people, in romantic relationships, have difficulty paying enough attention to each other’s needs and expressing their feelings appropriately, which can lead to conflicts and breakups. At the same time, finding mutual trust and emotional support is important for maintaining successful relationships inromantic relationships. 5.Gender Identity andRomanticRelationships Learning about gender identity and self-expression is related to the internal conflicts that arise in romantic relationships for young people. Young people between thea