YIGITLARNI OILAVIY HAYOTGA TAYYORLASHNING IJTIMOIY-PSIXOLOGIK VA PEDAGOGIK SHART – SHAROITLARI

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The article contains thoughts and comments on the socio-psychological features of preparing young men for family life in the context of various reforms being carried out in our society, as well as onpedagogical conditions. Keywords: family, student, adaptation, upbringing, age characteristics, cognitive communication, socialization,family relations, mothers' school. The problem of preparing theyounger generation for thefuture great life is an integral part of the concept of strengthening the independence of Uzbekistan, a national school, an important factor in the restoration of national values. As the head of our state noted, “National feelings are natural for a person, because they are inherited from parents, they are expressed in the words of a child to his mother, father, and the world. Without instilling love and respect for his people, their traditions, language, and culture, it is impossibleto educate a trueperson, a patriot who considers his people, his Motherland to be equal in the community of world nations, and who will adequately protect them,” - he said. Our esteemed President Sh.M. Mirziyoyev said, “The family is sacred for me. Its sacredness is that, first of all, no matter where you work, no matter who you are, ifyou do notpay special attention to upbringing inthefamily, the environment in thefamily, www.wordlyknowledge.uz ILMIYMETODIK JURNAL JOURNAL OFIQRO –ЖУРНАЛ ИҚРО –IQRO JURNALI –volume 14,issue02,2025 ISSN:2181-4341, IMPACT FACTOR( RESEARCH BIB )–7,245,SJIF–5,431 honesty in the family, attitude, and upbringing, there will never be any results. That is why I pay great attention to the upbringing of my children. I have a special attitude towards each of my children and grandchildren. I know the individual character, dreams, desires of each of my grandchildren,” thesewords showhowimportant they are in today's globalization era. Independence In the conditions of today's development of Uzbekistan, the issue of forming a new generation of citizens is being put on the agenda. To solve this issue, it is important to study and apply therich heritageand advancedexperiences of Uzbek folk pedagogy. Today's problems of family development, strengthening the family and family upbringing require work on the basis of folk pedagogy materials in preparing teenage boys and girls for family life, and the development of pedagogical foundations for this issue. In this, the spiritual and moral education ofboys andgirls plays aspecial role. The future fate of our country directly depends on the confidence in the future, the profession, knowledge and qualifications of our youth. In our country, a “National Program for Personnel Training” has been developed. The tasks set out in the program required a fundamental reform of theeducation system and led to theadoption ofa newversion oftheLaw “On Education”.Today, both state documents of historical importance serve as the main basis for educating young people in our country who have general and special knowledge, a modern worldview, and national and universal values. Every thoughtful, educated, professional, and intelligent young person does not look indifferently at the fate of himself and others. This, in turn, serves to further deepen the understanding of the responsibility for building a family and the family they have built. Family responsibility inyoung people prevents many divorces and theincrease in orphans. In addition, it is clear that children from a well-established family will make a positive contribution to the prosperous future of our country. Because a person who is intelligent and thoughtful will always strive for goodness and goodness, and if necessary, will call others to goodness, and will boldly strive to improve their homeland and country. Every right-minded and thoughtful person knows that protecting their homeland and improving it is one of the most important criteria for a happy life. It is necessary to awaken in the hearts, minds, and thoughts of our youth today national pride, a sense of patriotism, and a heartfelt love for a person, his family, home, and neighborhood, and the dear place where the umbilical cord blood was shed - the Motherland. These constitute the content and essence of the Uzbek national mentality. Instilling these qualities in the minds of the younger generation of our time is a psychologically and pedagogically complex, multifaceted, and long-term process, and the most important factor underlying it is the economy. The tactical and strategic path of the head of our state is also aimed at this. The younger generation must understand this correctly. The future fate of our country depends on these young people. Every country in the world has the will to strengthen its national interests. This, naturally, gives rise to healthy, friendly, and mutually beneficial competition. National development depends on the creative potential of the people, and in the development of a child into a full-fledged person, his lineage, upbrin