PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS AND PARENTING STYLES WITHIN THE FAMILY

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We know that the relationship between parents and a child is the main and central part of the family. It is the quality of the relationship that has a great impact on the development of a child's personality. On the other hand, family education creates an early effective atmosphere in a child's life. However, this article talks about the relationships and parenting styles of parents in the family, as well as the future influence of their children. Kalit so’zlar: Avtoritar ota-ona uslubi, demokratik ota-ona uslubi, g'amxo'r ota-ona uslubi, haddan tashqari himoya, oilada ota-onaning do'stona uslubi, ota-ona va bola munosabatlari 78 Journаl of Аnаlyticаl Synergy аnd Scientific Horizon ISSN: 3060-5261 Volume 1, Issue 2, Series B 2025 Ключевые слова: Авторитарный стиль воспитания, Демократический стиль воспитания, Заботливый стиль воспитания, чрезмерная защита, Попустительский стиль воспитания в семье. Keywords: Authoritarian Parenting Style, Democratic Parenting Style, Caring parenting style, overprotection, Conniving family parenting style. The parenting style in a family refers to a set of attitudes, concepts, principles, and values that create the conditions for a child's development and preparation for life in society. While the dominant type of parental influence is usually considered, it is also important to take into account who dominates in the family and how they do so, as well as the significance of each family member's impact on the child. However, it is common to see disagreements between parents regarding the same actions of the child, depending on the style of their relationship. In psychology, there are six main types of parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, democratic, uninvolved, rejecting, and over-protective. Each style has its own unique characteristics and can affect a child's mental health and personal growth in different ways. There are several different parenting styles in families. Let's take a look at some of them. For example, Authoritarian Parenting Style Under an authoritarian parenting style, parents suppress a child's independence, strictly directing and controlling their actions and decisions. They use physical punishment, coercion, and shouting to discipline for even minor infractions. Parents give orders and instructions, without considering the child's opinion or offering compromise. In these families, obedience and respect for tradition are highly valued, 79 Journаl of Аnаlyticаl Synergy аnd Scientific Horizon ISSN: 3060-5261 Volume 1, Issue 2, Series B 2025 and rules are not discussed. Parents believe they are always right and disobedience should be punished, often through physical means. Children's independence is limited, as parents do not feel the need to justify their demands or offer explanations. As a result, children are deprived of love, affection, and empathy from their parents, who only care about raising them to be obedient. Parents strictly monitor the homework of younger students, sometimes even standing next to them and putting pressure on them in an attempt to make them act independently. In response, children use various strategies to protect themselves, such as crying or feigning helplessness. This can lead to children losing interest in learning and having difficulty concentrating in class. Teachers working with these students should be aware that they may have little interest in learning, but they are often eager to receive high grades at any cost. These students may react poorly to criticism and always find someone to blame when things go wrong. They may struggle to make friends, as they are not able to give selflessly or adapt to a group setting. Instead, they tend to want to be the center of attention and may blame others for their own problems. Parents of these students often complain that their children do not enjoy school and are not allowed to express themselves. In reality, these children may ignore or reject the suggestions of their teachers and classmates, harshly criticizing everything that occurs in the classroom without offering any solutions. Democratic Parenting Style A democratic parenting style is characterized by warm relationships between parents and children, moderate discipline, and hopes for their future. It also involves frequent communication and caring for children's emotional well-being. Democratic parents create a loving atmosphere in the home and provide emotional support. They are firm and consistent in their expectations, yet fair in their approach. They 80 Journаl of Аnаlyticаl Synergy аnd Scientific Horizon ISSN: 3060-5261 Volume 1, Issue 2, Series B 2025 encourage personal responsibility and independence in their children according to their age and abilities. This style of parenting differs from conniving parenting, which is often based on manipulation and control. Parents create discipline by using rational and problem-solving strategies to ensure their children's independence and, if necessary, adherence to group r