PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEWS OF THINKERS ON FAMILY MANAGEMENT AND CHILD REARING

Аннотация

The article examines the impact of family management on the formation of a child's intellectual abilities. family management methods by applying psychological characteristics correct formation , Psychological views of thinkers on family management and child rearing illuminated. Keywords: Family, management, child rearing , psychocorrection, healthy lifestyle, authoritarian style, democraticstyle, oppression, violence, intellectual ability, liberal style. The development of society is directly dependent on the level of formation of the socio-economic and spiritual image of the families within it. The demands that any society places on families are their If it does not conflict with the interests of the family, on the contrary, it should ensure the well-being and peace of the family. If it helps, support for social needs from families, the higher the rate of ensuring their actual implementation. Decree of the President of the Republic of Uzbekistan No. PF-60 dated January 28, 2022 “ On the Development Strategy of New Uzbekistan for includes the following issues: “From the Strategy of Actions to the Strategy of Development, ensuring the rights, freedoms and legitimate interests of young people, based on the principles of goodness and humanity; Preservation of the life and health of young people, improvement of the conditions for their access to qualified medical services, increasing medical literacy among young peopleand strengthening a healthy lifestyle.” Family relationship system – According to Satir, it is not the manifestation or performance of family members in certain roles in one or another situation, but rather a “map” of relationships that is specific to each family. For example, atherapist who wants to help a family needs this map, because it is difficult for him to imagine the real relationships of real members in another way. In addition tothese family members, this map also includes the influence oftheirrelatives. For example, if a man is somehow separated from his family and lives with his wife and children, his real relationship with his wife is influenced by his mother living in another house, then the influence ofthemother-in - law mustalso be taken into account in themap offamily relationships. Or a woman who has divorced her first marriage may constantly remember her ex-husband because he lives with her child , see him at the request of the child, and even be financially dependent on him . This, of course, does not fail to affect real family relationships. In some intact families, even after a son gets married or a daughter has a child, parents continue to grieve for them and try to ensure that theydonot stumblein life. In fact, in almost all regions of our country, there are customs according to which a mother considers herself fully responsible for the food and nutrition of her newborn daughter . There are two reasons for this: firstly, such a renewal occurs in the body of a newly born woman that the very food and drink she has eaten and drunk in her family over the years accelerates the adaptation processes; secondly, the kindness of her mother helps the young mother forget about the misfortunes she has recently experienced and feel like a real mother. This psychological state is extremely important, and among Uzbeks itis considered oneof thefactors offamily strength. The mother-in-law is also a mother, she also feels sorry for her daughter-in-law, she does everything she can to forget the pain of childbirth, but in many observations, receiving news from her own birth mother and being there plays a major role in helping the young mother enter the 264 INTERNATIONAL MULTIDISCIPLINARY JOURNAL FOR RESEARCH & DEVELOPMENT SJIF2019:5.2222020:5.5522021:5.6372022:5.4792023:6.5632024:7,805 eISSN:2394-6334 https://www.ijmrd.in/index.php/imjrd Volume12,issue02(2025) role of motherhood more quickly and breastfeed her child. The following four main styles of management are distinguished in the family: democratic, authoritarian, liberal, and mixed. As it is easy toguess from thename, the attitudeofadults to thechild isbased on the idea that the child is independent, not passive, that various manipulations can be carried out with himthat effectively affect thechild's development and lead to thedesired result. The result, it should be noted, is clearly known to adults: "obedient, compliant, convenient child". The interests and opinions ofthechild are perceived as a non-decisive object of influence. Authoritarian style - tyranny, pedagogy of violence and coercion. Those who implement this method of education The example of the teacher is very clear from the children's writer Atsrid Lindgren. This is a familiar Miss Bok, whoseexperience has shown that children are "silk"Love is notused to be. The child's teacher Let's remember our first meeting: the unfamiliar woman's unstable tone, her Theharshness makes thechild blushand hidebehind his mother. The style of upbringing (communication) in the family is a se