THE ROLE OF ETHNOPSYCHOLOGICAL CHARACTERISTICS IN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS IN THE FAMILY

Аннотация

The family is where the foundations of a person's relationships with representatives of other ethnic communities are laid, and a great deal in people's lives depends on what these relationships will be like. It is in the family that, from an early age, a person becomes a bearer of traditions and habits, social and moral values of the nation to which he belongs. This article also examines the dynamics of the development of marital relations and their national specifics, the stages of the formation of marital and family relations. Kеywоrds: family, marital relations, marital and family relations, tradition, culture, stages of formation of marital and family relations. INTRОDUСTIОN In our multi-ethnic state, interethnic marriages are a common phenomenon, and to know and then correctly understand the psychological characteristics of people in a multi-ethnic family is an important task for scientists and social workers. There are no exact statistics on this matter. In addition, the current national situation also has a negative impact on this problem. At the same time, it is quite obvious that the attractiveness of this type of marriage, as shown by individual studies, is quite high. MАTЕRIАLS АND MЕTHОDS The institution of the family exists among all modern nations, and although it is surprisingly diverse, all nations understand the family as the only way to preserve an ethnic community. The family is a certain type of activity for which girls and boys are prepared from childhood. As special studies and practice show, the foundations of an individual's relationships with representatives of other ethnic communities are laid in the family, and a great deal in people's lives depends on what these relationships will be. It is in the family that, from an early age, a person becomes a bearer of traditions and habits, social and moral values of the nation to which he belongs. But in the case where several nationalities are involved in the family, this process is not sufficiently understood by society. RЕSULTS АND DISСUSSIОN Often the historical roots of a people become the potential and the reference point for the creation of some historical traditions for the human race. 5 SCIENCE AND INNOVATION IN THE EDUCATION SYSTEM International scientific-online conference Let us consider the dynamics of the development of marital relations and their national specificity. At the first stage of the formation of marital and family relations, the social- role and interpersonal adaptation to the conditions of family life, which is inherent for each ethnic community, usually occurs. This is the time of the initial entry into each other's spiritual world, mutual adaptation, distribution of social roles, as well as arrangements for everyday life and organization of recreation in a couple. If there are representatives of different nationalities and peoples in the family, then the relationships in the family are often not smooth and even. This stage in the life of the young is very difficult and important, they need to constantly be with each other and understand the national costs of the traditions of each of them. In these relationships, only love ensures the stabilization of marital relations, sweeping away obstacles in its path. At the second stage of the formation of marital relations, which begins after the birth of a child, there is a significant restructuring in the relationship of the spouses, associated with a change in the role structure, the emergence of parental responsibilities, the redistribution of material resources and the budget of time. At this stage, the process of establishing unity in common interests, issues related to the family. However, already at this time the basis for overcoming all kinds of disagreements, including nationally specific ones, appears, the prerequisites are laid for a general, international attitude of the spouses towards themselves and other people, a correct assessment of ethnic “shortcomings” and misunderstandings, if they take place. The most important thing is that spouses are forced to think seriously about the international principles of upbringing in the family, connected not only with the birth of a child, but also with its development, with the future prospects of its behavior in culture, ethics. The distribution of family responsibilities in the home is of great importance. For example, among the peoples of the Caucasus, a man begins to perform responsibilities around the house and yard only after the birth of a baby. Special psychological studies show that young people of different nationalities, having fallen in love with each other and intending to get married, do not think seriously about the possible difficulties of living together (including interethnic ones) that await them. 6 SCIENCE AND INNOVATION IN THE EDUCATION SYSTEM International scientific-online conference Having encountered difficulties at the second and third stages of the formation of their family, they overcome t