PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE ON PREVENTING THE EMERGENCE OF MODERN CONFLICTS IN ADOLESCENTS

Аннотация

This article looks at how to prevent teenage conflict between parents and children. The origin of conflicts between father and daughter, mother and son. The hobbies and interests of teenage children, and a new emotion emerging in adolescent psychology, is self- awareness. Studying the attitude of father to mother from conflict situations in the family using an asychological approach. Information is provided on V. Sukhomlinsky’s identification of the basic personality traits. Keywords. adolescence , parents, emancipation, personality traits, physiological, physical. PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE ON PREVENTING THE EMERGENCE OF MODERN CONFLICTS IN ADOLESCENTS Abstract. This article looks at how to prevent teenage conflict between parents and children. The origin of conflicts between father and daughter, mother and son. The hobbies and interests of teenage children, and a new emotion emerging in adolescent psychology, is self- awareness. Studying the attitude of father to mother from conflict situations in the family using an asychological approach. Information is provided on V. Sukhomlinsky's identification of the basic personality traits. Keywords. adolescence, parents, emancipation, personality traits, physiological, physical. ПСИХОЛОГИЧЕСКИЕ КОНСУЛЬТАЦИИ ПО ПРЕДОТВРАЩЕНИЮ ВОЗНИКНОВЕНИЯ СОВРЕМЕННЫХ КОНФЛИКТОВ У ПОДРОСТКОВ Аннотация. В данной статье рассматриваются способы предотвращения подростковых конфликтов между родителями и детьми. Происхождение конфликтов между отцом и дочерью, матерью и сыном. Хобби и интересы детей-подростков, а также новая эмоция, возникающая в подростковой психологии, — это самосознание. Изучение отношения отца к матери из конфликтных ситуаций в семье с использованием асихологического подхода. Приводятся сведения об выявлении В. Сухомлинским основных качеств личности. Ключевые слова. подростковый возраст, родители, эмансипация, особенности личности, физиологический, физический. Disagreements with parents arise because the teenager feels big and wants to take the place of his parents. Of course, parents don't like this. Disagreements arise between parents and children . sometimes it can be conflicts between father and daughter, mother and son. They say that a girl is closer to her father, and a boy is closer to his mother. But over time, that is, in adulthood, the child begins to forget about it. 1 12 1 International scientific journal ISSN: 2181-3906 «MODERN SCIENCE АND RESEARCH» 2024 VOLUME 3 / ISSUE 6 / UIF:8.2 / MODERNSCIENCE.UZ Because he directed his feelings towards other people outside the family. He begins to try to lose his relationship with his parents. If at home a teenager treats the child kindly and tenderly, taking into account the child’s age, if the child’s wishes are taken into account depending on the circumstances, if the child is treated as an individual, he will notice this and try to follow a good path. Otherwise, the teenager will find something else to do on the street and there is a high probability of going down the wrong path. Undoubtedly, the role and influence of the family in the formation and development of the unique spirituality of any people is immeasurable. Because the purest and purest feelings of a person, the first life concepts and ideas are first formed in the bosom of the family. [] . In our mentality, especially girls are prepared only for marriage. As a result, our girls also start thinking about getting married and starting a family when they start a family. It is no secret that our ancestors raised their children based on our national values, and as a result, many great people grew up among them. As an example, unfortunately, today's superficial, indifferent attitude towards family formation, treating it as just a biological phenomenon is the reason for the increase in the number of divorces. To prevent this, it is necessary to create “Family Training Centers” in microdistricts, settlements and higher educational institutions. We call the period of adolescence a difficult period, but we do not realize that we are the cause of the emergence and slow passage of this interval. If we devote a little time to our children and find a way to please them, we will raise and mature people who will benefit our society tomorrow. Adolescence is the period from 10-11 to 14-15 years. For most students, the transition to adolescence usually begins in 5th grade. “Now he is not a child - he is not yet an adult” - this formula indicates the nature of adolescence. At this age, dramatic changes in the development of a teenager begin to occur. These changes are physiological and psychological changes. Modern medicine studies the onset of anatomical and physiological changes in the body from the age of 7. Accordingly, they believe that it is necessary to determine adolescence not by the calendar, but by sexual changes in the body. As a result of the acceleration of physiological changes in the body at this age, the child feels excited, wakes up in high spirits, and some