USING THE EXPERIENCE OF THE ELDERLY IN FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS

Аннотация

The article is about the use of the elderly and their rich life experience in raising young people as mature individuals in the family, increasing the social activity of the elderly, their role in the family, society, in raising children, their social protection, appreciation, their role in ensuring the succession of generations, what are their services in educating young people consists of comments about. Key words. family, upbringing, elders, young generation, value, experience, attitude. ИСПОЛЬЗОВАНИЕ ОПЫТА ПОЖИЛЫХ В СЕМЕЙНЫХ ОТНОШЕНИЯХ Аннотация. В статье речь идет об использовании пожилых людей и их богатого жизненного опыта в воспитании молодых людей как зрелых личностей в семье, повышении социальной активности пожилых людей, их роли в семье, обществе, в воспитании детей, их социальной защите, признании, их роль в обеспечении преемственности поколений, в чем заключаются их заслуги в воспитании молодежи, о чем состоят комментарии. Ключевые слова: семья, воспитание, старшие, молодое поколение, ценности, опыт, отношение. With the growing share of the elderly in the world population, "old age" is setting new tasks on the agenda as one of the problems of the Universal demographic. According to data, " the aging process is 6.8% worldwide, including 11.4% in Europe and the CIS, 18.3% in highly industrialized countries, and 12% to 22% of the world's population over 60 from 2015 to 2050[5] Today, special attention is paid to further improving the quality of life of the population, including increasing the social activity of the elderly, protecting and further improving the standard of living. Due to the national traditions and humanitarian principles in respect of the representatives of the older generation of our people at all times, the elderly in our country are placed under the protection of the state. Article 39 of the Constitution of the Republic of Uzbekistan establishes that "everyone has the right to social security in old age, loss of working capacity, as well as in the absence of a breadwinner and in other cases provided for by law" [1]. We glorify the elderly, first of all, as people with rich life experience, who have seen the bitterness of life. Man is the highest blessing of nature, an inimitable hoax. A person is born, needs care, his parents, loved ones raise him and stand up, then he himself raises others, leaves offspring, continues his offspring, gets old and again needs the help of his closest people. People prepare the ground for the moderate course of their life stages in society and family. This preparation is embodied in the various customs, moral values and beliefs of the Peoples. Therefore, the attitude towards the elderly in society and family is also included. In general, veneration, veneration of the elderly is a universal virtue. On the basis of our rich spiritual heritage, the attitude towards the elderly occupies a key place. If we are not based on national and universal principles in relation to the older generation, we cannot ensure succession between generations. 2 47 International scientific journal ISSN: 2181-3906 «MODERN SCIENCE АND RESEARCH» 2024 VOLUME 3 / ISSUE 6 / UIF:8.2 / MODERNSCIENCE.UZ A person must live a healthy life in order to live well and long. Therefore, respecting the elderly, providing an opportunity for them to live in a healthy lifestyle, using the rich life experiences of the elderly and veterans, ensuring their participation in youth education begins with the family. In Uzbek families, social and ethnocultural features characteristic of Eastern culture are also expressed. Because in Muslim countries, special attention is paid to the problems of moral duty in the relationship between parents, children, spouses, etc.in the family, as well as to the norms of morality. As the younger generation participates in social life, it takes on the obligation to support the representatives of the older generation. In developing countries where the rate of pensions is not very high, the elderly are mainly in the care of their children, naturally, their needs are provided by their children. In developed countries, where the pension level is considered high, the elderly live mainly alone (40%), 20% of whom live with their children. Only a very small percentage of the elderly can be financially dependent on their children. Today, in developed countries, there are fewer elderly family members, but it is observed that they have a stable income. According to the census court in America, a 25-34-year-old person receives twenty times more support for their children than for the help they provide to their parents. Even for 35-44-year-olds, this ratio is one-fifth, respectively. The difference is visible not only at the level of prosperity of the countries, but also in the diversity of cultures-individual, Eastern corporate culture of the West. In northern Europe and North America, the relationship of the elderly to the family is not strong. In Japan, China, East and Central