PSYCHOLOGICAL ADAPTATION OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Аннотация

The article considers thebeginning of socio-psychological adaptation to the stability of marriage relations and highlights socio-psychological adaptations to the stability of marriage relations. KEYWORDS:- Well-being, adaptation, adequate, personality, attitude, кcomfort,psychoemotional,well-being, matrimony, compatibility. socio-psychological adaptation and tolerance of I NTRODUCTION the spouses, which in modern conditions, are essential for an adequate functioning of the Currently the society is at the stage of changes individual in society, regulating relations in the and reorganizations in all spheres of life. These system "acceptance of others" and "self- changes have affected the family system, in acceptance". In marriage, the image of a which marital relations are central. Interpersonal psychologically mature person is in demand, interaction of spouses is the basis of family well- capable of adequate adaptation and building being and psychological comfort of its members. constructive relationships, ensuring well-being The quality of marital relations is largely in the psycho-emotional state and interpersonal determined by the compatibility of spouses, their interaction. Psychology of family life, family- social and psychophysical correspondence, and marriage relations, relationships in the family, the consistency of views, attitudes, and habitual conflicts in it, divorce and its consequences forms of reaction. Marital well-being is psychology in subsequent years becoming the determined by the sense of subjective object of a wide research of sciences. From satisfaction of spouses with marital relations, scientists-psychologists in this field G. B. which affects their psycho-emotional well-being. Shoumarov, E. A. Morshina, E. Goziev, V. M. In social psychology has significant theoretical Karimova, M. G. Davletshin, N. A. Soginov, S. A. and practical material on marital well-being, but Okhunzhonova, A. Shozhalilov, T. M. Adizova, E. rather little research on the marital compatibility Usmanov, Kh. Karimov, Sh. Sh. Juraeva, R. S. and no study in which an integrated approach to Samarovo, O. Shamieva, N. Salaeva, F. R. marital compatibility plays a significant role of Ruzikulov,.Science under the leadership of CURRENT RESEARCH JOURNAL OF PEDAGOGICSISSN 176 – 2767-3278 https://masterjournals.com/index.php/crjp CURRENT RESEARCH JOURNAL OF PEDAGOGICS 2(9): 176-179, September 2021 DOI: https://doi.org/10.37547/pedagogics-crjp-02-09-36 ISSN 2767-3278 ©2021 Master Journals Accepted 25thSeptember, 2021 & Published 30thSeptember, 2021 Fayziyeva M. et al. the research work deserves marriage than men, regardless of the level of attention. The importance of social-psychological well-being in the marriage, which indicates that adaptation in the stability of marital relations" men are more satisfied with their marital covers the role of socio-psychological adaptation relationships than women. There is a correlation in the stability of marital relationships, the between a high level of well-being in marriage Ability to adapt is laid in the society in which the and the manifestation of socio-psychological couple developed a long period With changing adaptation. The fundamental condition for well- social conditions, the regulatory activities of being in marriage is tolerance, which is spouses ensures the process of re-adapt represented in the following set of psychological ourselves (And Lebedev), which are agreed upon features : "internal locus of control", "self- expectations (And Peter) Adaptation ensures the acceptance" and "acceptance of others", which stability of an evolving system in the standard are high in both spouses, while"internal locus of environment (A G Asmolov, N. N. Moiseev, And control " dominates in men, and"self- Prigozhy) It proceeds normally until the acceptance"and" acceptance of others " in requirements of the external environment reach women. For marital well-being, the following the adaptation barrier (JA Alexandrovsky) and a characteristics of spouses are important : bifurcation is activated, which ensures a change adaptability, the desire for dominance, emotional in the developing system The adapted comfort, focus on themselves and on the cause personality is able to get out of the maladapted with low values of escapism and stress state (AA Rean) Marriage and family adaptation accumulation .3 Men and women have character is a gradual and integral process of adaptation of traits that contribute to well-being in marriage. spouses to each other, as a result of which a In married couples with a high level of well-being stable family structure is formed and the spouses in marriage, men are characterized by overcome the crisis periods of matrimony demonstrativeness at the level of accentuation development (L YA Gozman, Yu E Aleshina, S V and emotivity at the level of character traits, for Kovalev, V ASysenko, L B. Schneider) Adaptation women-pedantry at the level of accentuation, as is based on the