FAMILY AND SCIENCE. MOTIVATION AND PLANS OF MARRIED STUDENTS

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This article discusses the motivation of young people who get married during their student years to study, changes in their personal and social lives, and the impact of family life on the educational process. It also analyzes what psychological and social problems married studentsface, what support they need, and the conditionsthat can be created for them. Keywords: Married students, motivation, psychological pressure, family and science, social support, timemanagement, student plans. The care of the family by society and the state has become an important direction of our social policy. The President of the Republic of Uzbekistan Shavkat Mirziyoyev has been paying special attention to family issues. In his speech to the Oliy Majlis, Shavkat Mirziyoyev specifically touched upon the processes of preparing young people for a family, forming their legal concepts, andreceiving education: - “In a word, from the moment a child is born tothe age of 30,a holistic and continuous system will be created that will support him in every way and help him find a worthy place in life. World experience shows that the investment spent on raising the younger generation in all respects brings ten or a hundred times more benefits to society. “No matter how difficult it is, we must find our own unique and effective methods for educating young people, in line with today's times. We must protect our dear children from destructive and harmful ideas, crime, drug addiction, apathy, and a state of spiritual poverty. "All of us, and first of all, you, dear young people, must be active in eliminating such negative situations. You are certainly capable of preserving the spiritual strength and eternal traditions of our people and praising them to the whole world."”1, – said President Shavkat Mirziyoyev in an open dialogue with young peopleat the forum. Observing the processes of marriage, we often see that two young people decide to get married while still students. This situation is associated with their personal development, academic activities and future plans, that is, married students feel the responsibility of being students along withfamily relationships. Married students have a dual motivation: •Thedesire toprovide forthe family materially and spiritually •Theneed tocontinue theireducation in order tobuild asolid foundation for thefuture Many student couples try to make theirstudiesmore effective bysupportingeach other. Family responsibilities can have both positive and negative effects on a student's psychological state: •Positiveaspects: spiritual support, emotional stability, progress in self-awareness •Negative aspects: lack of time, stress, decreased attention tostudies If there are conflicts in theliving environment, this canalso negatively affect academic success. Society's attitude towards a married student is different. Some evaluate this positively, while others may think that it is necessary to temporarily stop studying. This situation causes self- doubtin thestudent or,conversely, forms astrong mental state. Whenplanning theirfuture, married students have such goals as: 1Ш.Мирзиёев.Ўзбекистонёшларифорумидасўзлаганнутқидан,25декабрь2020йил, https://ijmri.de/index.php/jmsi volume 4,issue6,2025 11 •Having astableincome •Ensuring that familymembers are educated •Aqualityapproach toraising children. One of the important stages in a person's life is starting a family. Especially in the lives of young people, this event significantly changes their worldview, responsibility, and approach to the future. This situation is no exception among students. When they start a family, positive changes occur not only in their personal lives, but also in their attitude to study, choosing a profession, and setting goals. The life ofmarried students is a unique set of tests and opportunities. The most important factor for them is proper time management, mutual support, and having a clear goal. Universities and society need to pay more attention to this category of students and form systems to support them spiritually and materially. After all, a person formed in harmony with family and science is the most stable and responsible member of society. In conclusion, we can say that starting a family is a major turning point in the lives of students. This turn increases their motivationto study, helps toclearly formulate plans and dreams for the future. Therefore, it is no exaggeration to say that a student's family is not an excessive distraction, but, on the contrary, a social factor that encourages them to take life and science more seriously. The presence of a family also plays an important role in ensuring the psychological stability of the student. He becomes more determined, knowing that he is not alone, but that there are people who support him spiritually and emotionally. This, in turn, creates a strong internal motivation for him to expresshimself, be socially active, and pursuehis professional goals. Therefore, a student's family should n