SOCIO-PSYCHOLOGICAL PORTRAIT OF MODERN FATHERS

Аннотация

In the article, who is a father, who is a modern father, the term "big father", the formation of an internal father figure, the breadwinner, the head of the family, children rely on, follow, trust and are proud of their father. The modern father has a more difficult and long way togo. Key words:Father, modern father, the term "big father", internal father figure, children rely on, follow, trustand are proud offather. Annotasiya:Maqolada ota bu kim, zamonaviy ota kim, “katta ota” atamasi, ichki ota figurasini shakllantirish, ota boquvchi, ota oila boshlig'i, farzandlar otaga suyanadi, ergashadi, ishonadi va faxrlanadi. Zamonaviy otayanada qiyin va uzoq yo'lni bosib o'tishi kerak. Kalit so’zlar: Ota, zamonaviy ota, “katta ota” atamasi, ichki ota figurasini, farzandlar otaga suyanadi, ergashadi, ishonadi vafaxrlanadi. Аннотация: В статье кто такой отец, кто такой современный отец, рассмотрен термин «большой отец», формирование внутренней фигуры отца, главы семьи, дети полагаются, следуют, доверяют и являются гордятся своим отцом. Современному отцу предстоит пройтиболеетрудный и долгийпуть. Ключевые слова: Отец, современный отец, термин «большой отец», внутренняя фигура отца,детиполагаются наотца,следуют заним,доверяют ему игордятся им. Introduction. In the first moments of a child's birth, the mother and child are emotionally and psychologically connected, and the two are considered one body, one entity. Therefore, their relationship is symbiotic (sameness, merging, wholeness). As the child grows and becomes older, the distance, the psychological distance between them increases, and the symbiotic relationship turns into psychological connections in the form of mental-cognitive relationships. A relatively little-studied area of ​ ​ maternal psychology. Studies of fathers' behavior have shown that they are no less caring and affectionate than women, andif necessary, they can be even more affectionate. Since both father and mother initially manifest the same kindness towards the child, the baby hardly feels the difference between them. By the age of one, the child begins to perceive his father as a separate, independent person, and the relationship takes on a triadic form. Observing the relationship between his father and mother, the child increasingly understands the meaning of some separate, independent, distant relationships.[11] page1350 INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE ISSN:2692-5206,ImpactFactor:12,23 AmericanAcademicpublishers,volume05,issue06,2025 Journal: https://www.academicpublishers.org/journals/index.php/ijai The father has a special place in the Uzbek family. He is the head of the family. There are no scales to measure the father's place in the family. The father's authority is valued in the family, children rely onhim, followhim, trusthim and are proudofhim.[2] The father is the pillar of the family, a true and invincible fortress. The foundation of the family fortress is strengthened by the father's upbringing. The role of the mother in raising a child is also special and has long been proven in science and repeatedly recognized. It was not for nothing that the great thinker Alisher Navoi wrote the following wise verses: Sacrifice your head for a spoonful of food. Make your body a charity for a mother's head. May it be a day and anight, a light that shines. Someare themoon, someare thesun.[1] The main part. Traditionally, the roles of men and women within the family were divided as follows: the husband is the breadwinner, the head of the family, decides all the main issues, thewife is thekeeper of thehearth, is responsible for everyday life, household chores. In other words, the man’s sphere of responsibility is the external component, the connection between society, family and society, andwomen are thespace withinthefamily.[3] In the modern world, the situation has changed somewhat. In the last century, husbands and wives have acquired equal rights and obligations in matters of family formation andraising children. At least legally. In the last 10 years, the term "grandfather" has emerged - this is a parent who is truly involvedin theupbringing and development of thechild onanequal footingwith themother.[3] Important aspects of the relationship between a child (especially a boy) and his father have long been outside the scope of psychologists. In most cases, it was the mother who was the main object of research in analyzing the process of raising a child and forming him as a person.[4] The formation of an internal father figure begins in early childhood. Our relationships with loved ones, including our father, leave an imprint on us. Based on our experience of communicating with our father, the experience of the relationship between mother and father, wehave anidea of​ ​ ​ ​ what kind of father weare.[9] Until recently, the roles of women and men in the family were clearly separated: women were supposed todohousework, and men were supposed to earn money. A man is the head of the f