EXPLORING THE WAYS OF CHILDREN EXPRESSING THEIR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS TOWARDS THEIR PARENTS

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Have you ever thought about howmany timesa week you tell your parents that you love them? There is no doubt that we love them dearly and with all our heart , but we must show our feelings for them in our words and actions. In this article, we will consider some of the ways in which children express theirlovefor theirparents. Key words:Parent-child relationships, familyand society, parenting, Adolescent problems. Introduction: Family is the smallest part of the society, so any big or small events that happen in the family indirectly affect the society. From this we can see that ensuring a healthy environment in the family, bringing up children with love for parents and the Motherland should be one of the most important goals of society and every parent. Of course, every parent wants his children to treat him with love and respect, but before expecting love from a child, it is necessary to give him love, it is necessary to bring him up well, parents should be an example for their children. if they treat their parents well and love them sincerely, it will definitely be reflected in their children. According to popular writer Tahir Malik, "It is unacceptable for a child who does not respect his parents to demand respect from hischildren. The narrativeisan exampleofthis: A man lived a long life and became surplus to his son. To get rid of his father, the son put him in a sack and went on his way. When he stopped under a tree, his father in the sack was laughing. The son was surprised and asked why he was laughing. The father said: "I too was chasing my father to put him in a sack and throw him on the mountain. Look what a coincidence that when I came here, Ialso stopped torest..." Material description: According to psychologists, "parent-child relationships play an important role in the development of personality over time." Sigmund Freud believes that "adults' relationships with people depend largely on their relationships with theirparents in childhood." For example, if an adult woman has problems in her relationships with men, it is likely that her relationship with her father isunhealthy. In addition, according to Erik Erikson's theory, children whose basic needs were met in infancy have a strong sense of trust in adults, but infants whose needs are not met develop insecurity in the future. According to another theory, children see their parents as teachers from an early age. In other words, we learn how to behave and relate to others through our relationships with our parents. Lev Vygotsky viewed parents as teachers and children as learners. Albert Bandura's social learning theory compares parents to models whose behavior children copy. For example, if our parents hug us and show physical affection to others, according to Bandura's theory, we also express our feelings through hugs. From the opinion of the above scholars, we can know that just as a parent expresses his love to his child, in the same way the child also expresses it. If parents openly express their feelings to their children with words such as "We love you", "it's good to have you", "it's good to have you as my child", it iseasy forthe child tosay thesewords totheparents. When parents express their feelings by hugging, kissing, and caressing their child, the child expresses his orher lovefor theparents in thesameway. worldlyjournals.com ILMIY TADQIQOTLAR VA ULARNING YECHIMLARI JURNALI JOURNAL OF SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH AND THEIR SOLUTIONS VOLUME 5, ISSUE 02, IYUN 2025 WORLDLY KNOWLEDGE NASHRIYOTI If the parents cannot openly tell the child that they love him or her, it will be difficult for the child to express his or her feelings to the parents. But both the child and the parents feel the warmth of lovefor them in theirhearts. On the other hand, the child can follow the example of how his parents show love to his parents and express hisfeelings forhis parents inthis way. Analyzing: We organized a survey to find out how children express their feelings to their parents. Fifty peoplebetween theages of18and 45took part inthesurvey. In this questionnaire there were questions such as: "Howdoyou express your feelings toyour parents", "Howoften doyou tell them that you lovethem", "Howdoyou evaluate your relationship with your parents", "What problems doyou havein your relationship with your parents?" "Your relationship withyour parents, how would you likeitto be". The survey results showed that young people are often ashamed to express their feelings to their parents, to tell them that they lovethem and they think that itis not important. On the other hand, people over the age of 35 indicated that they hug, kiss, and verbally express their love to their parents and that they think it is important. Younger people often tell their parents about their grief openly or by not talking to their parents for a period of time, while older people said they try not to tell their parents about theirgrief and try to hideit. Survey participants aged 18- 30 rated their