WAYS TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN IN TROUBLED FAMILIES

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The article examines mechanisms for resolving conflicts between parents and children in troubled families, and also separately considers the question of whether the family is a part of society and the need to develop alternative ways of working with troubled families toensure theirwell-being. In addition, the article examines in detail the Model Family program and provides suggestions forits promotion. Keywords:Family, types of families, family conflicts, what is a conflict, conflict families, functions ofthefamily, marital relations, social and pedagogical service, children-teenagers. Family — is a small group based on marriage or kinship. Its members are bound together by the unity of the household, mutual assistance, and spiritual responsibility. The main social functions of the family are to ensure the continuation of the human race, raise children, and organize the living conditions and leisure of its members in an effective manner. Although family relations are considered relatively independent, they are determined by the existing social, economic, and ideological relations in society and change under their influence. Accordingly, every society establishes a type of family and family relationships that correspond toits changes and needs.1 CONFLICT (from Latin conflictus – disagreement, collision) – 1) a clash between opposing parties, ideas, or forces; 2) in literature and art, a fundamental contradiction that lies at the heart of a work, expressed through the clash and discord of characters. While conflict is typically associated with epic works, in lyric works it tends to manifest as collision, inner turmoil, or a stream of consciousness. Conflict can be observed in three primary forms: confrontation or struggle between the characters themselves; collision with external circumstances and the environment; and an inner struggle within thecharacter.2 It is well-known that as long as families—considered a vital component of society—are peaceful and harmonious, the state itself will experience stability and sustainable development. The strength of a family and the formation of spiritual and moral values within it are of critical importance. Indeed, it is within the sanctity of the family that children are nurtured and brought to maturity. In society, there are many exemplary families. When we speak of an exemplary family, what comes to mind are homes illuminated by spiritual values, where familial relationships are built upon moral foundations and virtuous, well-mannered children are raised. Thevery existence ofsuch families serves as aschool of inspirationand examplefor others. 1https://qomus.info/encyclopedia/cat-o/oila-uz/ 2ttps://qomus.info/encyclopedia/cat-k/konflikt-uz/ page2501 INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE ISSN:2692-5206,ImpactFactor:12,23 AmericanAcademicpublishers,volume05,issue05,2025 Journal: https://www.academicpublishers.org/journals/index.php/ijai Unfortunately, alongside these model families, there are also those that negatively impact child- rearing and contribute to a socially adverse environment. Terms such as “quarrelsome family,” “conflict-ridden family,”or “turbulent family” are often used to describe such households. 3 Troubled families are those that occupy a social position characterized by an unhealthy environment in their daily lives. Such families often arise from factors such as low family income, negative psychological states, and a generally low level of cultural awareness within the household. These families are frequently unable to fulfill the roles and responsibilities expected of them; they exhibit poor adaptability and face considerable challenges in the upbringing of their children. In such families, the child-rearing process is fraught with difficulties, and they require active, sustained support from social pedagogues to address these challenges.4 In socially troubled families, conflicts—particularly between spouses—are prevalent. Specifically, the emergence of disagreements and disputes between husband and wife is often driven by criminogenic factors, which refer to those circumstances that create favorable conditions for the formation of criminal intent, facilitate the commission of crimes, and are thus considered conducive to criminal behavior. These factors are closely intertwined with the unhealthy socio-psychological environment within the family. The intricate links between these criminogenic factors and the family’s adverse socio-psychological atmosphere have been thoroughly examined. In order to effectively address the root causes of conflicts and disputes that may arise within families and to take positive measures for their prevention, it is first necessary to identify the parties involved insuch conflicts. Whomdoyou think family disputes might typically involve? •Conflictsbetween spouses; •Conflictsbetween mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; •Conflictsbetween mother-in-law and son-in-law; •Conflictsbetween sisters-in-law; •Conflictsbetw